Wednesday, May 25, 2011

New pictures and update!



We just got an update from our agency on Jayden! He is getting so big. It said that he is now able to get up into standing on his own in his crib and will take steps leaning his body in the rail. He is only eating rice cereal/rice porridge with formula from a bottle. So I expect he will have no idea how to chew food, even though he is 21 months old. They said he will smile when played with, so I hope to see that smile really soon. All of the pictures we have of him, he looks so sad. I just want to go get him all the more now!!


Monday, May 16, 2011

waiting for our last step

Just another quick update. Our Article 5 was picked up from the US consulate in Guangzhou last Thursday, and sent to Beijing. Now we are officially waiting for Travel Approval!!! We are still hoping to travel in June.

In other news, I don't think I mentioned on our blog that we got chickens this year! David and his dad build the coop, and the kids helped David with finishing the coop and the chicken run. It was a lot more work than we bargained for, but we are excited for when the chickens start laying eggs! They still prefer to stay inside the coop instead of exploring outside, but I don't blame them, it is too cold!

So cute chicks in March


Josiah loves playing with them. And they actually put up with him!


My little chicks


Don't they look cozy in their new digs?



The whole gang went up skiing at Mt. Bachelor (my four plus niece and nephew)


Wednesday, April 27, 2011

getting closer

For once, we seem to be in the fast lane with this adoption. We got our I800 approval last Monday, and were cabled yesterday! What this means is that we are two steps closer to Jayden!! Two more steps to go! Now we wait for Article 5, which takes two weeks, and then we wait for travel approval, which is taking anywhere from 2 to 4 weeks. So June travel is looking pretty likely.

Saturday, April 16, 2011

New pictures!


A family recently visited the Gaozhou orphanage and got to see our son, tickle his feet, and take some pictures of him! We are so thankful that they checked in on him, and especially thankful for the words they wrote about him and the new pictures.

The nannies said he is clever and even is pulling on and off his pants with his feet. He was attentive to the visitors, but didn't smile for them. He is most likely in his crib all the time, but has many other cribs that are close so the kids can reach through or over the rails to touch each other. There are probably only two nannies for the two baby rooms, with a total of about 30 babies. So not a lot of attention, but they said it looked like at least his basic needs are being met and he looked healthy. I can't wait to go get him and love him, hold him, hug him, tell him I love him. I want to see him smile!!

Wednesday, April 6, 2011

LOA!!!


Two months after sending our final documents to China, we got our LOA (letter of approval, or letter seeking confirmation) yesterday! This means we have been approved by the Chinese adoption authority to adopt Jayden.

Next steps are waiting for another approval from immigration, waiting for documents to be cabled to the US consulate in China, waiting for approval from the consulate (Article 5), and then waiting for Travel Approval from China. Each step takes approximately 2 weeks. Once we have travel approval, we can make a consulate appointment and buy plane tickets!! So, looks like June travel is still possible, at the latest beginning of July (assuming the government doesn't shut down and slow things down!!)

Tuesday, March 1, 2011

Waiting..... and a name!


Waiting is something most people don't like to do. Waiting in long lines at the grocery store. Waiting for the cookies to finish cooking. Waiting for the first days of Spring. Waiting for a child to come home. The whole adoption process is a bunch of hurry up and wait, hurry up and wait, and repeat I don't know how many times. I don't mind the hurry up part, but detest the waiting part.

But it is during the waiting times that I see God really working. When I'm waiting for something, I tend to draw closer to God. Partially to ask Him to hurry up the wait. I'm human after all! But mostly to seek comfort from Him and grow in my relationship with Him during the wait.

So we wait. All our paperwork is in China now, waiting for someone over there to send us a letter stating that we are approved to adopt our son. This wait is one of the biggest unknowns of the process, how long it will be. With Olivia and Josiah's adoptions, we waited about 80 days for this approval. More recently, people have been waiting anywhere from 30 to 70 days. We are of course praying that it will come soon! After all, it is not just us waiting. There is a little boy in a crowded orphanage in China, waiting for a family to show him what love is. We are also praying that while he is waiting for his family, someone will love him there.

AND

I think I completely forgot to announce on our blog that we have a name!!

Jayden Ailang

Jayden is named after my dad, Jay. Jayden is derived from the Hebrew name Jadon, who was a man that helped Nehemiah rebuild the wall in Jerusalem, it means thankful. And his given Chinese name is Gao Ai Lang. Every child from his orphanage has Gao as their surname. Ai is given to every child found in 2009 and Lang is his unique name.

Thursday, January 6, 2011

2011 already?!!

I can't believe it has been over a month since I've made a post. Guess we've been busy! I'll update with lots of pictures what we've been up to. First of all, an update with adoption stuff. Not much to report right now. We are still waiting for our first immigration approval. They are running way behind due to the holidays and lots of applications coming in, so hopefully it will be done soon, but who knows? We did get fingerprinted while vacationing down in LA, so that was nice to get done and behind us, and didn't have to make a separate trip over the mountains to have them done in our state. As far as my guess on when we would travel?? Your guess is as good as mine. I really have no idea.

Joel and Hannah were in the Nutcracker ballet for the second year. Joel was Fritz' friend and Hannah was a soldier. They both did great!




We had a little birthday party for Jesus, cake and all! Really trying to focus on God's gift to us this year.


Then off to Disneyland! David's parents gave us a trip to Disneyland as our Christmas gift this year. We drove down over three days (extended the trip due to a snow storm coming) and got to meet up with some friends who we met in China when we were there adopting Josiah.

We got to enjoy a couple hours at Disneyland (which by the way was Olivia and Josiah's first time) and then got to take a trip to the wonderful Orange County Children's Hospital ER.

Josiah chilling at the ER. A couple stitches later, Josiah was all better!
We got to meet Joanna and her family and had dinner at their house. Joanna lived in China in the same city that Josiah is from and got to spend some time with Josiah, even bringing him home for a weekend while we were waiting to get him. It was wonderful to be able to meet her and her family and boyfriend. They are great people.

The first few days at Disneyland were very wet and rainy. We tried to stay dry with ponchos, but still ended up soaked to the bone by the end of the day.


David and I went on California Screamin (a fast roller coaster ride at California Adventure) while it was pouring down rain and got SOAKED!



Josiah and Olivia found me a ladybug!


Olivia was very brave and went on pretty much any ride she was tall enough to do. Here she is on the swing ride that goes pretty fast and high. No fear!



Josiah also loved every ride he went on, especially the bumper cars and the Autopia cars (he's all boy!) Oh and of course he loved shooting things in the Buzz Lightyear Astroblaster ride.
It did end up getting nice for the last few days there, along with the nice weather came the huge crowds.


Hannah's favorite thing was meeting as many princesses as she could. Ariel especially spend a LOT of time with Hannah and Olivia (might have helped that Hannah was decked out in Ariel apparel and Olivia was dressed up as a princess!)

They had to visit whatever character they were dressed up as for that day! Here's three Minnies!
And three tinkerbells!
Don't worry, Joel got to meet his fill of characters too! Josiah wasn't very much into meeting the characters, they were scary for him.
Joel turned 9 at Disneyland. His whole birthday was his choice of what to do, which of course Joel loved.

Any trip to Disneyland with Uncle Mark and Aunt Carrie is extra special because of all the fun things they add, such as lots of glow sticks.

We smuggled the kids' stockings into Disneyland on Christmas morning.

Well, we started off the week with Josiah's injury, and ended it with David getting strep throat. Poor guy!